Friendship . . . a word, concept, and idea which, in my opinion, still have no meaning towards the minds and soul of many.
Why do i say this? I say this after having witnessed an unfortunate event of where a good friend of my own was inconsiderately mistreated.
It seemed to me that he was more of a pet towards this band of so called friends, rather than a friend.
Though I was weak and weiry after a long day's work, i still hold true a good sense of what you could and could not do towards friends.
Such things include not yelling at one to play tunes upon the piano and afterwards not giving tribute or respect of listening towards such great tunes.
It also seems to me that there is no more respect left within the same minds and souls of my friend's so called friends. Where was the respect when he was playing? It was no where to be found, because of the fact that they cared too much about their own lives and craved to be the center of attention.
Where was the respect towards his family members? Quietly they sat by, holding in the impulses to be ridden of or even get rid of loud and bothersome individuals.
Where was the respect? Where was it when they decided to strip him of all his dignity by taking him down and petting him like a puppy in front of old friends in which he has had and yet not spoken to in a while? Where?
The time of ranting has ended, now is the time to teach.
I question these individuals, how would you feel if you were to be stripped of all your dignity, if by chance you know what the word dignity means, in front of all your close friends. I question how these individuals will feel if they were to be asked to preform a task at which they are very proud of themselves of doing, and in return no one pays any tribute or respect to. Knowing that these certain individuals have no respect, I am assuming that I don't really need to ask them how they would feel if their family members were annoyed to an extreme by a band of inconsiderate little children who just care too much of themselves than to open up and try to repect others.
For those who read this, you may have a sense of who i speak of. For those individuals who happen to come across to what i have written, i am openly challenging your ethics, morals, and also your idea of friendship. You know who you are, and the reason why i did not speak out last night was because of 2 reasons. The first, being the fact that I did not want to ruin my friend's party, and the second is because I respect the thoughts of the one i cared for most.
Let it be known, that I will defend the ones i care with, with all the strength and power.
I know in my mind that you cannot force people to understand a problem themselves. They must realize it through an epiphany, only then will they know of what they did wrong.
This is Mr. Evan Chu
finishing off a post which i hope many will read
my last thoughts are of only the fact that i hope these individuals will learn well and realize what impact they have put towards others.
Ev |